Some people think that the family is the most important influence on young adults. Other people think that friends are the most important influence on young adults. Which view do you agree with? Use examples to support your position
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I agree family do influence the life of young-adult. It is the environment that gives shape to any personality. Hence every young adult has a great influence of the surrounding in which one lives. Quite obvious the builders of any such environment are the parents.
If parents in a house are very loving, caring, soft spoken, non smokers, and teetotaler and disciplined, youngsters learn good things. Conversely if parents are smokers, drinkers, quarrelsome, using offensive language and undisciplined, youngsters would learn bad things and shall reproduce and repeat those behaviors. Family is the one with whom youngsters spend majority of time and hence a family is the real character builder of the young.
However friends too can have greater positive influence over many areas of a teen’s emerging identity. Provided choice of friend is right and good. Their choice of music, movies, clothes, boyfriends or girlfriends, classes, jobs, and so on. In some teens, it doesn’t stop here; it also covers the personal standards of behavior, school performance, morals and values. Conversely on choosing wrong friends, sometimes teens become more susceptible to negative influences from friends, like getting addicted to smoking, drinking, drug-abuse and premature sex and many more. However the supportive and trusting relationships with parents, elderly relatives and teachers prove to be the powerful tools that enable youngsters to overcome these problems and can enhance youngster’s sense of responsibility, belonging and academic achievement.
In conclusion a family is the most important influence on young adults. After a fundamentally sound education at home, the young-adult performs well and progresses consistently. In the later years of a young-adult’s career parents must devote some more time and educate them. This shall have a very positive impact on the minds of the young-adults and they will perform well.
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